Have you seen the Disney movie Moana? It was released in 2016. Here’s the basic premise. The creator “god” was robbed. Her heart that holds the mystical powers of creation was stolen by a demi-god. Because of this theft, life was being drained from islands, trees, fish etc. Without this “heart”, she couldn’t maintain life, even to the extent that she became a monster.
I’m not simply recounting this movie for fun (though I have to admit I love it! My 3-year-old daughter and I have seen it at least 30 times). Over the many times I’ve seen this movie, it has occurred to me that though the movie is not theologically accurate there are many, many spiritual lessons to be learned here. If you haven’t seen it, I highly recommend it to you! I promise my synopsis doesn’t give too much away.
One of the lessons that glares at me through this movie is about parenting. Sometimes with the intent of protecting our children from harm, we hold them back from something to which they have been called by God or we push them in areas for which He has not equipped them. Moana’s father, the chief, as a teenager had longed to sail on the ocean. When he finally decided to sneak out and steal a boat, his best friend begged to go along. While out on the seas, Moana’s dad (he has no other name) hit rough seas and the boat capsized. This threw his buddy over into the sea, he eventually dies. With a past like that it’s easy to see why her dad wouldn’t want her on the sea.
The problem however is that the whole movie is about Moana and her calling. The ocean “god” chooses Moana when she’s just a toddler in the very beginning of the movie. We can’t allow our biases and fears to hold our children back. Just because this thing didn’t work out for you (or anyone you’ve ever known), doesn’t mean God hasn’t specifically equipped your child for that same task.
Let’s take a look at the call on someone’s life in scripture whose family probably wouldn’t have approved. Flip over to Acts 9:15,
“The Lord said to Ananias, ‘Go! I have chosen him to tell foreigners, kings, and the people of Israel about me. 16 I will show him how much he must suffer for worshiping in my name.’ “, CEV
Here we see God telling Ananias to, “GO!” place his hands on Saul and baptize him. Later in the book of Acts (after we’ve read about much of Paul’s ministry), he tells King Agrippa that he comes from a line of pharisees. Remember them? The group of Jewish religious leaders, many of whom opposed Jesus while He was in the flesh and then began persecuting His followers after He had returned back home. Paul (when he was Saul) was one of them. For the first almost half of the book of Acts he along with other pharisees sought to imprison and kill followers of Christ. But by the end of it he’s one of the prisoners being persecuted for Christ. Imagine if Saul had asked his parents’ opinion of joining up with these people of the Way? They probably would’ve lost their minds. But look at the end of Acts what Jesus says to Paul about his calling,
“15’Who are you?’ I asked.
Then the Lord answered, ‘I am Jesus! I am the one you are so cruel to. 16 Now stand up. I have appeared to you, because I have chosen you to be my servant. You are to tell others what you have learned about me and what I will show you later.’ “, Acts 26:15-16, CEV
Jesus had called Saul to be His servant! The call that God has placed on the life of my child is bigger than anything I could ever think or imagine. And even more importantly, God has a plan to move His agenda forward on this Earth. My child’s involvement in that movement is more important that what I can even see.
Lord, don’t allow me to stand in the way of Your calling on my babies’ lives. Help me remember, that its not my will but Yours that must be done. Thank You, Father for my babies!!