Hello everyone!  I'm excited about today's post for a number of reasons.  The first is that I'm always excited to bring you easy hands on activities for placing Jesus before your babies!  Also, this is something I heard about not too long ago and have wanted to share with you ever since! 

This will be a quick post as it's a super simple activity!  All you need in the way of supplies for this is a writing implement and a surface upon which to write.  

The Lesson:
What are the Psalms? Simply put, the Psalms are songs and prayers that either lament or praise to the Lord.  They are full of imagery, comparisons and lofty language.  These poems are masterfully crafted.  Let's read one:

"Psalm 100

Be Thankful
A psalm of thanksgiving.

1 Let the whole earth shout triumphantly to the Lord!
2 Serve the Lord with gladness;
come before him with joyful songs.
3 Acknowledge that the Lord is God.
He made us, and we are his--
his people, the sheep of his pasture.
4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving
and his courts with praise.
Give thanks to him and bless his name.
5 For the Lord is good, and his faithful love endures forever;
his faithfulness, through all generations.", Psalms 100, CSB

This Psalm is a praise of thanksgiving!  Being grateful to God for all His many blessings should be a natural posture for each of us as followers.  Discuss each verse with your kids and talk about the different actions the writer expects followers of God to do throughout this chapter (Shout, Serve, Come, Acknowledge, Enter His gates, and Give).

Once you've discussed each of these items its your turn!!  As a group decide on a attribute of God that you would like to praise.  Once you've done that, begin writing your psalm to the Lord.  It can be as long or short as you'd like just try to make it full.  

When you're done, we'd love for you to share it in the comments or on social media!!  We'd love to know how your kiddos enjoyed this activity!  Please share!!

So I'm kind of cheating today, but I promise its a good thing!  These posts are generated by my life, things I read and other things I see and hear.  A few weeks ago I read something I just loved.  Instead of me rewriting it, I'll just link you to it.

Before I do that, though, I want to frame it.   Throughout scripture, the Lord has consistently given us the choice between two options.  This is so vitally important to teach our children.  The world around them will tell them they get to choose from among many, many options.  However this is not what Jesus says,

"6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.", John 14:6, NKJV

He doesn't give a couple different choices (though the world around us will say that there are many choices).  He is THE way, THE truth and THE life.  The choice is between Him and the wrong choice.

Our job as parents is to point our children to Jesus, recognizing we can't make the choice for them.  Just like the star that led the wise men to Jesus in the manger, it is our job to lead them to the risen Savior so they can choose Him.  Leading them to Him means placing the choice before them and helping them know that not choosing Him means choosing death.  Choosing Him means choosing life!!

"See, I set before you today life and prosperity, death and destruction.  For I command you today love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to Him and to keep His commands, decrees and laws;  then you will live and increase and the Lord your God will bless you in the land you are entering to possess.", Deuteronomy 30:15-16, NIV

Without further ado, here's the link I promised.  Please take a read and be blessed!!

https://renew.org/the-bible-number-that-keeps-confronting-us/

I'm not sure if you missed it, but this week marks 75 years since the prisoners of Auschwitz were liberated.  Such a dark time in the recent past.  Citizens watched (and too many sat silent) as their fellow citizens (friends, neighbors, teachers, grocers etc.) were first marginalized, then forcibly ostracized from the communities they had help to build.  Too many other countries sat silent as such a dark evil was allowed to sweep across Europe.  Such an important time to remember and NEVER forget.

As I was watching some of the coverage of the memorials and events marking this day, I was awestruck by the story of one survivor in particular.  Mrs. Tova Freidman was 5 when she and her family went got to Auschwitz.  At such a young age, I'm sure she didn't immediately fully understand the horrors that awaited her, her family and the other prisoners.  This didn't stop her mother though.  Tova spoke about how her mother protected her by telling her the truth!!  She said that her mother didn't ever hold back.  This shocked me.  I can only imagine my young children being there and how knowing what was likely to happen, how I would try to pretend that all was ok.  This is not the choice Tova's mother made.  She didn't hold back and always told her daughter what was happening and why.  This would allow her to respond accordingly.

After hearing this interview, I started thinking about my kids.  My first thought was this world and the conversation that Paul has in Ephesians 6.  Its easy for us to think it wise to not tell our children that they are in the midst of a war.  But it is a spiritual battle.  Take a look at 2 Timothy 2:22,

"Flee  from youthful passions, and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace,  along with those who call on the Lord  from a pure heart. ", HCSB

There can't be "youthful passions" (or "adolescent cravings" according to another version), if it was only adults in the war.  Scripture also talks about satan setting traps for us; some of those traps are specific to the youth of the day.  

Now, obviously I am not saying that we should terrify our children with stories of devils and demons lurking behind every corner, but we shouldn't shy away from talking about the great deceiver either.  Especially in light of one of my favorite verses,
"...the One who is in you  is greater than the one who is in the world.", 1 John 4:4 HCSB

Remember the one who is in the world is that old liar from the start.  The One who is in you, died on Calvary for your sins and mine.  And NEVER forget, He got back up!!

Take the lead from Mrs. Tova Freidman's mother.  Tell your children that they are in a war.  They are in a battle.  Then prepare them for war against an enemy who has already lost.  As long as they get on the right side of the battle, they will be victorious!

Its the start to a new year and change is in the air! This is the time of year that everyone's best intentions are on full display.  Even my son's elementary school is getting in on the action.  Each of the almost 400 students had to answer about five specific questions about themselves with an eye toward personal improvement.  This got me thinking, why not do the same around my home?

I'm sure you've seen how many churches, organizations and even individuals will choose a specific theme or trait for the year upon which they'd like to focus.  This is what we're doing in our home.  So we've decided on a theme for the year.  Something we all (parents included) need to be working on anyway.  What is our trait/theme that we've decided to work on? Gratitude!!

So step one, after deciding on the theme (get your kids involved in this part), is making sure both of our young kids fully understand what this is.  Step two was to find a memory verse that would be the basis of our focus for the year.  (Ours is 1 Thessalonians 5:18: "Give thanks in all things, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.")  Step three is to help them see how they get to show and experience gratitude day to day.  This one is an on-going, throughout the year type process.  The final step (another on-going through out the year type thing), is to hold each other accountable for living this gratitude out.  If your kids are anything like mine, this will probably be their favorite!

There are so many aspects to this type of activity that are great learning tools for our kids!  We've got prayerfully considering a decision together as a family.  You've got scripture memorization.  This has become a favorite of mine.  As I get older I recognize the benefit of having scripture at the ready in my head/ heart.  You also have the application of scripture lived out in real life.  And last but not least, we've got the accountability piece of living in a village.  As the Lord's church, this is part of our job description.  One of the benefits of the local church is the fact that each of us has folks that we see on a least a weekly basis who can speak life into us and call us out when we're messing up.

I'll check back in with you guys over the next couple months so you can see our progress attempting to live out gratitude in our lives.  I'd love to hear about your experiences!!  Have you had a family verse or theme for the year before?  How'd that work out for you?

My husband and I have a three-year-old.  For some reason this is an intense age.  Since she is very strong willed, we but heads daily on who’s will is going to win.  I am not one who believes a strong will is bad.  As long as your will can be brought into submission to His will, this can be good!  (We are still working on the submission part with my daughter.)
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We often have “girls” devotion time while her dad is at work and her brother is in school.  During this time, I try to help her see a principle that is evident and repeated in scripture.  Each time I walk through a story with her, we discuss the same three questions at the end.  “Who did we talk about in this story?”, “What did they do?” and “Did they follow God’s directions?”.

Turn over to Judges 2:1-5, CSB,
“1 The angel of the Lord went up from Gilgal to Bochim and said, “I brought you out of Egypt and led you into the land I had promised to your fathers. I also said: I will never break my covenant with you.  2 You are not to make a covenant with the inhabitants of this land. You are to tear down their altars. But you have not obeyed me. What is this you have done?  3 Therefore, I now say: I will not drive out these people before you. They will be thorns in your sides, and their gods will be a trap for you.”  4 When the angel of the Lord had spoken these words to all the Israelites, the people wept loudly.  5 So they named that place Bochim and offered sacrifices there to the Lord.”

Up to this point, God had told His people a number of times that they needed to follow His directions.  Here he is telling them that they will be punished through the Canaanites for disobeying.  This is the principle I want my daughter to learn early.  Let’s compare.

Flip over to Genesis 6:22, CSB,
“22 And Noah did this. He did everything that God had commanded him.”

In Genesis 6 we learn about the instructions that God gave Noah about the ark.  We see at the end of the chapter that Noah did follow His directions.  Then the rain came, and everything that breathed air died.  After the storm, we see what happens when we obey God.

Head over to Genesis 8:1-4, CSB,
“1 God remembered Noah, as well as all the wildlife and all the livestock that were with him in the ark. God caused a wind to pass over the earth, and the water began to subside. 2 The sources of the watery depths and the floodgates of the sky were closed, and the rain from the sky stopped. 3 The water steadily receded from the earth, and by the end of 150 days the water had decreased significantly. 4 The ark came to rest in the seventh month, on the seventeenth day of the month, on the mountains of Ararat.”

Because Noah did “everything God commanded”, “God remembered Noah” by saving him from the flood!  The juxtaposition of these two stories shows us the principle I’m praying she learns (soon).  On the other side of our obedience are the blessings of a just and loving God. 
What this shows me, is that teaching my children to follow my directions is more important that just having well mannered children.  Teaching my children to follow directions (or obey), is preparing them for life in the Kingdom of God!  If we want good Kingdom citizens for children, we need to broaden our thinking in these areas.  They need to know that the best way to live joyfully in the Kingdom, is to walk in obedience to the will of the One and Only King of Kings and Lord of Lords…. Jesus!!

“23 However, I did give them this command: ‘Obey me, and then I will be your God, and you will be my people. Follow every way I command you so that it may go well with you.’”, Jeremiah 7:23, CSB

“22 But be doers of the word and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. 23 Because if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like someone looking at his own face in a mirror. 24 For he looks at himself, goes away, and immediately forgets what kind of person he was. 25 But the one who looks intently into the perfect law of freedom and perseveres in it, and is not a forgetful hearer but a doer who works — this person will be blessed in what he does.”, James 1:22-25, CSB

Before I could put a title to my desire to be a disciple maker in my home to my children, one thing I knew was that I wanted them to truly understand the importance of Christmas and Easter.  I wanted to make sure they knew it wasn’t about a jolly old elf who could slide up and down chimneys bestowing gifts upon “good” little kids or about huge bunnies that lay plastic candy-filled eggs in your yard.  I wanted them to know that these holidays were supposed to direct their attention and intentions to the God who loves them more than even I could.  As my children have grown older, I find this even harder than it used to be simply because misconceptions are in the air around them. 
In my attempt to make sure they remain focused; I have come up with a few things to hopefully keep them (and their parents) focused on the Lover of our souls.  If we think about who Jesus was while He was here on earth in the flesh, one word that comes to mind is servant.  So what better way to remind ourselves of Him than to be servants?!

 Flip over to Luke 22:27,
“27 For who is greater, the one at the table or the one serving? Isn’t it the one at the table? But I am among you as the One who serves.”

​Keep in mind that you’ll want to do as much of these as you can as a family.  Try to avoid doing all (or most) of the preparations alone.  Also, these are all things that can be done throughout the year.  We don’t have to wait for the Christmas season to find a way to serve the world around us. 

So here’s the list.  Feel free to lump some of these together.  Feel free to invite friends or family into the serving action with you.

• Make a big deal out of angel tree shopping as a family.
  • Generally, you can find Angel Trees at local malls and grocery stores. 
• Have your kids pick 1 or 2 people (preferably non-family) who have meant something to them this year for whom they’ll buy (or make) a gift. 
  • Make sure the person they choose isn’t someone your family would’ve gifted anyway.  
  • Perhaps even pick a kid from school who your child wouldn’t have given a gift.
• Serve at a local food bank or shelter as a family.
• Pick an issue or cause to support throughout the upcoming year.  Then decide on something you can do each month in support of this cause.  Also commit to praying for God’s intervention in solving this issue.
• Read through the Christmas story. (Luke 2:1-20; Matthew 1:18-25)
• Read through the many times that Jesus’ birth had been foretold in the Old Testament and the New Testament verses that fulfilled the prophecy.  (Isaiah 7:14 to Matthew 1:18-23 & Luke 1:26-35; Micah 5:2 to Matthew 2:1-6; Isaiah 60:1-3 to Matthew 2:11 & Romans 15:8-12; Hosea 11:1 to Matthew 2:13-15; Jeremiah 31:15 to Matthew 2:16-18)
• Jesus celebrated Hanukah. (John 10:22-23) Study the history of and celebrate Hanukah.
• Study the origins of Santa Claus.  Compare and contrast this person with the truth scripture tells us of Jesus.
• As a family, make and use an advent calendar to celebrate the advent season.
• Bake Jesus a birthday cake and throw Him a party!! Complete with singing!!
• Bake cookies together. Pick a high traffic area.  Sing carols and pass out cookies.
• Study the parable of “The Great Feast” (Luke 14:12-24).  Host a Christmas party.  Invite people you wouldn’t normally invite into your home.
• Pick a neighbor/church member to serve as a family.
• Fast from your favorite tv show or toy for a week.  At the end, discuss what it felt like to go without.  Then discuss those people who always go without.
• Take coffee and cookies or pastries to your local fire or police department

 
Perhaps you’ll do one or more of these things.  If you do take a picture and let us know how it went.  That would be great!!  Just know God honors us when we try to keep His children focused on Him.  Make every effort to keep Jesus at the center of the holiday.  Stand strong!  Be firm! You can do this!!

I'm so amazed by my God!  He opens my eyes to spiritual lessons through even non-spiritual means. The reason I love this so much is that He loves us enough to teach us where we are and using what we already see/hear/experience.  I was watching a TV show a few weeks back when this lesson smacked me upside my head.

There's a father with a college age daughter.  After ghosting him awhile (with him relentlessly pursuing her), she finally agrees to dinner with him.  During dinner, she drops the bomb on him... she's pregnant.  This is why she had pulled away from him.  Sound familiar?  Her "mistake" (sin) had caused her to be afraid to be in the presence of her father! (If this doesn't sound familiar, here's your homework: Luke 15:11-32 and Genesis 3 paying special attention to verses 9-13.)  

Now she had decided to "fix" her mistake by having an abortion and she wanted her father to go with her to the clinic.  Even though he wasn't devoutly faithful (he mentions having not stepped foot in a church for decades), he just doesn't think this was the best option because of what little faith he had.  He also had no appetite to support it.  So he pays for the food and leaves her at the restaurant....alone.

Now you know, as a parent, this wouldn't be something that he just doesn't think about.  This whole situation eats at him for quite awhile.  Later as he's walking around the city looking for clarity, he happens upon a church.  He goes in to schedule an appointment with the minister.  Instead he happens upon a wise janitor.  After explaining in broad detail his situation and how he's feeling, the janitor paraphrases Hebrews 13:5 ("...The Lord has promised that he will not leave us or desert us.") and tells him that one of the best qualities of Christ is that He won't leave us, EVEN when we're caught up in the consequences of our sin!

Now regardless of your views on abortion, you can't negate God's rules for us sexually.  It is only within the bonds of marriage, and only with your spouse.  This girl had messed up, and more than anyone else, she knew it!

Here's the lesson I heard from this.  When our children are in trouble, ESPECIALLY of their own making, we CAN'T just walk away if we want to imitate Christ's love for them.  Now by no means am I saying that we should ignore their iniquity and call it love.  What I am saying is that no matter what, my kids have me!  

Another place we see this spelled out in scripture is in Deuteronomy 31:6,

"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”"

Thank you, Lord!!  Thank you for not running to leave me alone every time I've messed up!  Thank you, Lord for loving me through the mess, not just after I'm cleaned up.  The reason God wants us to obey His commands isn't because He's a control freak.  It's because He knows one of the things that happens to us when we sin is that we put space between us.  He wants to be close to us at all times.  He wanted to walk in the garden with us, but we couldn't follow the rules.  Our children are affected by the exact same illness (sin).

One of the ways that we get to model the unconditional love that God has shown us, is to be there when they mess up; and continue loving on them.

Father help me to be the example of You perfect love that my kids need to see.  Help me not to run away in the times that they need me most.  EVEN when they've chosen sin over you.

I don’t know about you, but I have this image in my mind of who I want my kids to be as adults.  Before you go beating me up, yes there was a time when this image included a loving spouse, a great fulfilling career and 2.5 kids in a great school district.  Thankfully I have spiritually matured past this.  These days this image I have of my kids’ future looks dirtier tougher and even more fulfilling than any career could ever be.  My desire now is to see my babies living a servant’s life.  My desire is that my kids’ lives are marked by the pain and heartbreak that Jesus experienced as He walked through this fallen world.  (But let’s be honest, I’m still hoping that at least one of them has those 2.5 grankids for me!!)
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Not too long ago I heard a sermon about next level living.  The preacher talked about how over time, your life should be marked by a change for the better.  Sports is an area in which this is very clear.  Take a great high school basketball player.   When she firsts starts playing, she can barely dribble the ball and maybe she only plays a day or two a week.  As she matures, she plays more often, eventually daily, and she’s able to dribble with her eyes closed.  When she gets to high school, her workouts are more intense than they were years before this.  By the time she makes it to college, her workout routine is even more intense.  Once she gets drafted by the professional teams, her workouts and practices are much more intense and frequent.  This is like the saying, “What got you here won’t get you there.”  The same is true in your spiritual walk.  Each day should be a maturing effort toward the Standard (Jesus).

One of the points he made that stood out the most to me is this, “Don’t be pharisaical in your walk.  You should be pushing your brothers and sisters to be better, rather than looking down on them”.  Do you remember the parable Jesus told? Flip over to Luke 18:9-14,

“The Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector
9 He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous and looked down on everyone else: 10 “Two men went up to the temple complex to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee took his stand   and was praying like this: ‘God, I thank You that I’m not like other people — greedy, unrighteous, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week; I give a tenth of everything I get.’
13 “But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even raise his eyes to heaven but kept striking his chest   and saying, ‘God, turn Your wrath from me   — a sinner!’  14 I tell you, this one went down to his house justified rather than the other; because everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”

In this parable Jesus specifically addresses this pharisaical thinking.  It was the fact that this Pharisee was so caught up in his own righteousness, that he forgot the true goal of our lives.  Looking down on those around you for any reason, is wrong and against the call of God on our lives.  His intent for you being set apart was never so you could sit on a pedestal and look down on the other image bearers around you.  His goal was that you could show others that He loves them even in the midst of their sin covered mess….just like He did you!

Our goal isn’t to just make it to Heaven.  Our goal is to make it to Heaven and take as many people with us as we can!!  This is what’s called being mission minded.  This is what I want to see in my children once they become adults.  I want my babies to see God’s image all around them and like Jesus, be so moved with compassion that they desire to serve and love on them so much that they ask, “What must I do to be saved?” (Acts 2)

What about you?  What is it that your heart desires to see in your children?

Earlier this summer I was at a lectureship. I was struck by so much of the teaching being shared!  One of those lessons that won't let me go is the idea of the tent.  You've heard the phrase "Big tent, room for all".  Perhaps it was in relation to politics.  Basically it means that in order to have room for many people, you have to make the bar low for entry and high for removal.

Many outside the church would characterize us by what (or who) we are against rather than what (or who) we believe.  Others may even go far enough to call us judgmental (and at times they'd be correct).    There are so many organizations, pundits, teachers, politicians, etc. who tell us that we should shop at certain restaurants and stores or that we should vote a certain way or that we should send our kids to specific schools.  They would also tell us that if we question this or choose not to, that somehow that's un-Christian of us.  Or what about the attire we choose to wear to communal worship services?  Or the way we worship Jesus?  Or what about the attire of the preacher before us?  Can Christians get tattoos or piercings? Can Christians walk around with green and purple hair or a mohawk?  Can any of these be backed by scripture?  There are many teachers in the church who teach that there is only one way to do many of these things, even when they aren't backed by scripture.  Let's take a look at what scripture does have to say.

Flip over to 1 Corinthians 15.  Here Paul challenges the church at Corinth of the most important point.  This is a really good read and I encourage you to read in its entirety.  However for right now let's focus on verses, 12-19.

"12 Now if Christ is proclaimed as raised from the dead,  how can some of you say, “There is no resurrection of the dead”?  13 But if there is no resurrection of the dead, then Christ has not been raised; 14 and if Christ has not been raised, then our proclamation is without foundation, and so is your faith.  15 In addition, we are found to be false witnesses  about God, because we have testified about God that He raised up Christ — whom He did not raise up if in fact the dead are not raised. 16 For if the dead are not raised, Christ has not been raised. 17 And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is worthless; you are still in your sins. 18 Therefore, those who have fallen asleep in Christ have also perished. 19 If we have put our hope in Christ for this life only, we should be pitied more than anyone.",
1 Corinthians 15:12-19, HCSB

Our faith loses foundation (and we are made to be pitiable liars) without belief in Christ's resurrection!  It's not that our beliefs on what we wear to worship service, or what time we meet together, or how often we have group Bible study (or where).  It's our belief in the resurrection of Christ Jesus.

Now let's look at another verse, Jude 1:22.

"22Have mercy on those who doubt", Jude 1:22, HCSB

Now we get to the crux of the lesson I attended.  As a parent can you make room for your children to move away from some of your traditions, norms and strongly held beliefs as long as they can hold fast to the truth of the resurrection of Christ?  As a point of transparency, this scares me a little.  However I'm willing to let God mold me into the type of disciple who simply lifts Jesus high and let's Him handle the rest.

I'm not saying that we ignore the wrong decisions or sinful behaviors of our children and call it "having mercy on his doubt".  I'm simply saying let's give our children room to grow, learn and have some doubts.  Especially if they continue to hold fast to the truth of the resurrection of our savior Jesus Christ!